“Life begins where fear ends.”
― Osho
Why Work With Daniella
My journey in tantra sexuality, self love discovery and exploration started 10 years ago as my 23 year partnership in parenting and work came to a devastating halt due to adultery and complete lack of alignment in values. I couldn’t be more grateful today for all the lessons and self reconnection this brought me. I would never have left the deep trauma bond… I had fully accepted to the haze of normalized misery and didn’t know life could be anything else. My ability to clearly remember the ‘before’ doing this work feelings in my body is part of why I can draw people so quickly out of it. I can see through all the hang ups and hold backs clearly and know hidden limits that can be deeply held and hidden. Since coming into my own I have studied under some magical mentors learning from so many different modalities and systems to create my own programs of healing and building the powerful life you deserve. We always start with the inventory of what is. Bold honest truth. Then begin the descent into the unraveling of your shadow self to recognize the shame and fear patterns held in your mind and body. Next comes the work of repatterning, getting raw and releasing those old ways to build what you want life to be. I’ve been told by clients I hold the Zen stick firmly. I only work with those out to do the work. My passion is sharing my lessons in sexual empowerment by one-on-one self love life coaching sessions, body work, somatic experiencing and tantric visioning for life as well asworkshops in the Durham Region, Toronto, and now online.
The Yoni Witch
“creating this drum was an alignment to consistently walking to my own drum beat. ”
Althougth all my trainings like Reiki master, 300 hour yoga teacher training, internal family system, somatic experiencing, breath work and movement trainings, as well as laughter yoga play a role in how I coach my seekers, my sacred sexuality and feminine embodiment practices, along with my coaching certification, are the base and what you will see come up most in my approach.
My first meditation of knowing.
I shed my story around my fat ugly body that no one but my husband was supposed to see for the rest of my life… and found Sexual pleasure… once I stopped faking it to try to boost every partner up to think he was the most amazing lover. My inner rescuer took a lot of time to let go of fully, even now I can see it, but I recognize it for what it is and stear clear. Learning to feel and hold space for all my parts has taken years of practiced compassion and a building of my inner nurturing adult. Teaching others to write in programs for their parts is powerfully rewarding and nourishing my soul.
The people pleaser in me next levelled for a little bit trying to wrangle a white knight to save me from having to rebuild myself, I just wanted to move into some new life, some new love and get back to the comfortable. Thank god I started to listen to myself and begin to hear the whisper of my inner knowing….
Once I found my pleasure and had a sexual awakening in 2019, everything changed with the guidance of amazing teachers in many trainings with the International school of temple arts, and other somatic and tantric touch therapies.
I felt my call so loud it pulled me around the world to Italy, Mexico, Costa Rica and Israel to seek the knowledge my soul was asking for. I started the deep decent into my soul, navigating my shadows in a dance of fight and avoid…. And then slowly to embrace myself fully even the things that once brought me deep shame. This work never ends and I am so grateful to have the tools to navigate each wound and trigger.
And now I work alongside men and women who chose to live bravely and want to learn to remain loyal to themselves first and love themselves fully. I have been working full time creating unique programs and courses for humans ready to do the work to create the shift they know is possible for 6 years now. Looking back over my journey I can offering nothing but love for all the painful teachers. ❤️
My souls mission is to open hearts. To give people a space to learn to see themselves fully and fall in love.
My previous life
I started this journey weighing over 260lbs, lost in a world of self loathing and lack. My journey to health has included so many coaches, books and trainings. It included everything from my own shock therapy at sex clubs to learn that I am desirable at any size to frolicking free at nudist resorts to feel my body alive and free from sexual stories. I dared myself to do crazy and wild things to go deeper into my fears and understand what my limits were to hear the voices in my body, mind and heart. When I found Tantra in 2019 my real training and internal remembering began. I was guided into the darkest parts of myself to love all my stories and internal voices and let go of patriarchal conditioning. It was never about the food, my health was about love and reclaiming my truth. … Perimenopause has brought its own learning… if you know you know. I look forward to sharing more about these new learnings too!
I learned to heal my wounds though radial forgiveness and self love. To embrace all of me and to PUT MYSELF FIRST. Against everything I was taught, letting go of the shame in being selfish and owning my life. I stopped out sourcing my knowing and feeling it deep within me. Once that settled in I was unstoppable. No outside source could sway me from my path I finally felt in my body. Then it was time to fuel the fire and build my confidence with amazing coaches and mentors. I have been so very blessed to see the value in coaching from early on and understanding that some shit you need to learn to navigate.
Want to feel like you can face anything? AND THRIVE?
I offer free 30 minute discovery calls to see how learning to love yourself deeply, unconditionally will change your life. Do you feel like an outsider? Disconnected from yourself or your partner? Are you overweight and feel like willpower is failing you? Did you just go through a big transition and want to begin that new path feeling solid? Are you suffering from anxiety or depression? Have you never felt the power of your own orgasm? Or does it only happen when you are alone? Do you want to unleash all that’s inside with confidence and run full force at life? Contact me today.